Cut Through the Confusion

Google “divorce cost in Colorado” and you’ll see numbers all over the place — $3,800, $11,800, even $20,000+. Which one is right? The truth is, it depends on how much conflict is involved and how you choose to divorce.

For couples who are realistic, respectful, and collaborative, mediation offers a predictable, flat-fee process that avoids the runaway costs of litigation.


The Numbers (Colorado 2025)

  • Attorney hourly rate: $250–$400/hr.
  • Contested divorce hours per spouse: 40–120+.
  • Average litigated divorce (per spouse): $10,000–$15,000.
  • High-conflict litigated divorce: $16,400–$19,900.
  • Uncontested attorney-assisted divorce: $3,800–$4,200 — but only if you have no property, no retirement accounts, no kids.

Three Real-World Scenarios

Scenario 1: The Express Path Couple

  • Profile: Married <5 years, no kids, no house, <$250k assets.
  • Litigation estimate: 40 hrs × $300/hr × 2 attorneys = $24,000.
  • Mediation package: $1,750 flat fee.
  • Savings: Over $20,000 and a faster, calmer process.

Scenario 2: The Collaborative Path Couple

  • Profile: Shared home, retirement accounts, mid-level assets.
  • Litigation estimate: 80 hrs per spouse + QDRO + appraisal = $50,000+.
  • Mediation package: $4,950 flat fee.
  • Savings: 90% cost reduction, plus structured fairness review.

Scenario 3: The Co-Parenting Path Couple

  • Profile: Two kids, parenting plan, child support to figure out.
  • Litigation estimate: 100 hrs per spouse + CFI ($3,250) or PRE ($7,500). Easily $60,000+.
  • Mediation package: $6,500 flat fee.

Savings: $50k+ while protecting kids from conflict.t money. In reality, it’s about fairness and ensuring children are properly cared for, regardless of which household they’re in.


Why Mediation Wins for “Reasonable Couples”

  • Predictability: Flat-fee pricing, no surprise bills.
  • Comprehensiveness: Financial, parenting, housing, and emotional support built in.
  • Neutral guidance: A mediator isn’t “for” one side — they help both of you avoid costly mistakes.
  • Reward for cooperation: The more reasonable you are, the more you save.

👉 If you’re ready for clarity, book a free 15-minute call with Liz.